I "spoke" with him yesterday. Not for long, just a short group of meaningless words. I ask him if I was wasting my time. Ask him if I had a chance in hell at a future with him. Needless to say, the answer was inconclusive and vague at best. This mingled with the fact that we speak a lot less now, there are never any emails waiting for me from him (unless it is a response to something I sent) and he hasn't even mentioned the word divorce, leads to me believe that he is no longer interested in me. That is a devastating thought, but a strong possibility. So now I back away. I back away so far and so quietly you would never know I was there.